The set of instructions to visit or experience a deeper trance is an excellent read on Isabella Valentines site and here on Inraptured. Like all good things practice and rereading this forum post will help all whom follow the instructions! But where can one find the proper manners to approach the Femdomme or the Hypnodomme? In chat many just jump right in and PM the Hypnodommes or the Ladies in chat and yes, it is their discretion if they answer or not, but being the polite Ladies that they are, most I think out of courtesy do answer. What is the proper procedure ask before You PM or wait for the Femdomme to summon You into PM. Send Messages is it too forward to send the message or should one just wait and answer if a Femdomme or Hypnodomme wants to chat or exchange emails or messages from the profile links etc. Again being the submissive who has the right to initiate contact?
While listening to the recordings that one has purchased or downloaded, they are your possession now but if the file asks one to kneel, do you kneel or pretend in your mind that you are kneeling? If the suggestion that You smell perfume, or leather does the olfactory nerve allow the sensation to take place or is it a mind pretence? As for these type of suggestions is it proper manners to live these suggested commands or is it disobedience to not let them happen? These mental questions are they improper manners towards the Hypnodomme for not following proper orders or suggestions.
This whole fantasy or fetish is full of conflicts and arousals, are we looking to serve a Mistress, are we looking to escape into a hypnotized trance, do we want to feel the full gendre of submissive feelings, or is it possible that we want it all and blend like a smoothie the ingredients of being a good boy to the right Hypnodomme. So is there a set of Proper Manners to follow or is each situation a stab in the dark, or a drop down a long tunnel, or an emotional attachment to a sound of voice, or a story spun and told in rhytmetic timming.
Please feel free to offer all opinions from either experience, read instrutions, or from the Hypnodommes minds as they are the example setters one would hope.